What We Call Home 07/01/2010

One of the guests in the ACCESS program (Ashland County Churches Emergency Shelter Services) recently asked me, “Do you ever get to go home?”  Most Salvation Army officers have long days during the month of December, as do the elves who work at the North Pole – it’s just the nature of the beast.  Yet as I thought about her question, I realized that in a very real sense, when I am at the Salvation Army Ray and Joan Kroc Corps Community Center here in Ashland, I am home.

Now yes, I do have a house that I live in with my husband and son, with a bed that’s got my name on it and a wrap-around desk that is the hub of my writing projects.  There is at least some food in the refrigerator and a friendly family of dust bunnies lives in peace under the bed.  But if home is truly where the heart is, the Kroc Center is feeling like a home as well.       

One unknown writer has said that home is the place where it feels right to walk around without shoes.  I wouldn’t recommend it literally today as I’ve dropped and shattered two dishes over the weekend, but there is the sense of belonging here where we can curl up on the couch with our feet tucked underneath us, chatting with a friend, reading a book or knitting a scarf.  Too bad there’s no fireplace.

The center is gradually becoming an open home within our community where people are gathering to mark their lives in significant ways.  Community leaders join together for prayer monthly and the United Way of Ashland County marked its continuing strength at a recent celebration (only $40,000 needed to make goal – incredible in these difficult times – make that pledge today!).  The Care Team from the Family and Children’s First Council assembles here to support fragile families through difficult times, and early morning walkers greet the day as they stroll the field house or fun zone, finishing up their visit with a cup of coffee and some conversation.

We’re definitely becoming adept at the quick change.  Thursday, we hosted the D-R Services Christmas party, as more than two hundred people descended on the center to enjoy a delicious Swiss steak dinner, laughter and a visit from the Santa Man himself.  The next night, kids of all ages filled the center, roller skating and playing laser tag far into the night.  By Saturday, the center was transformed as we danced under a snowflake-filled sky to the sweet sounds of the Kroc Center Big Band under the leadership of Neil Ebert.   Those Christmas arrangements were rich enough to melt the heart of Scrooge himself.

Only hours later, our congregation gathered for worship and celebration as we faithfully lit the advent candles, shared a meal and offered our gifts to the Holy child of Bethlehem.  Change the scene once again, and the center opened its doors to Hospice of North Central Ohio with a poignant time of remembering for those who’ve lost a child to death.

Even with all the hustle and bustle of activity, there is still time and space for the heart of the Salvation Army’s mission as summed up in an old slogan – ‘Heart to God and hand to man’ (and woman too!).  I’m writing at the end of a day that saw the Fun Zone changed into Santa’s workshop, ready to share the overwhelming generosity of the Ashland community with about 300 families who need a boost this Christmas.     

I’m not sure that Joan Kroc had envisioned what her gift would look like in a small community, but we’re seeing it every day – hope in action.  It was Pope John Paul II who said:  “A community needs a soul if it is to become a true home for human beings.  You, the people must give it this soul.”  Substitute “building” for ‘community”, and his words ring true for 527 East Liberty Street:  You, our amazing staff and volunteers and the people of Ashland County, are giving this place soul, allowing these bricks and mortar to be a true home for each other.  Welcome to our home!